Engaging Everyone in Meetings
January 17, 2023
The universal purposes of meetings are to share information and make decisions. The best decision-making meetings engage all attendees in the discussion. Yet, attendees sometimes offer so many ideas there is no time left to make a decision. Or, the push to make a decision quickly doesn’t offer space for the sharing of relevant information. If you are wondering how your next meeting can address both aspects of an effective meeting, read on.
- Be clear on the purpose of the meeting by precisely stating what you want to achieve by the end.
- Then, divide the attendees into groups of 2 to 4 and give them a specific task. For example, ‘List 5 benefits of the merger we are considering” or ‘List 3 program ideas for our monthly meetings”.
- Ask the small group members to list their ideas on a flipchart in large print. Post them at the front of the room.
- Ask the participants to identify ideas that appear on multiple flipcharts and list the themes on a summary flipchart.
- Now that everyone has thought about the topic at hand, shared their ideas, and heard diverse input, dig a little deeper. Encourage whole room discussion by asking open-ended questions such as “What value will this idea add to the project?” or “How can we access these resources”.
- After there has been some discussion around each theme on the summary flipchart, ask “What questions or concerns haven’t been addressed yet?”
- Now attendees are likely ready for a vote or a consensus decision.
Since all meeting attendees have been involved and informed, they are more likely to buy-in to the decision and support its implementation. Engaging meetings are a great success for the organization and the team members!
As you’re wrapping presents this season, it’s also a great time to wrap up your year with intention. The end of the year offers a natural pause—a chance to reflect, appreciate, and celebrate the people who made a difference along the way. At work, we often move from one deadline to the next without stopping to say thank you. Take a moment to recognize your teammates. Maybe it’s the coworker who always had your back, or the leader who helped you stretch and grow. A sincere “thank you” or a short handwritten note can go a long way. It doesn’t need to be elaborate—just genuine. The same holds true in your personal life. When was the last time you told a friend or family member how much they mean to you? Between holiday plans and to-do lists, it’s easy to forget that our presence often matters more than any present. Every year brings both highs and lows. As this one comes to a close, choose to focus on what went right. Celebrate the small wins and acknowledge the people who supported you through the challenging moments. So, while you’re taping up gift boxes, take a little time to wrap up your year with gratitude. Send the text. Write the card. Let people know they’re valued. After all, the most meaningful gift you can give is helping someone feel truly appreciated. Want more simple, meaningful ways to express appreciation—without overspending? 👉 View Sharing Joy at Work Without Breaking the Bank for practical ideas you can use right away.
In Erica Dhawan’s book, Get Big Things Done, she defines Connectional Intelligence as the ability to combine knowledge, networks, and relationships to drive meaningful results. In today’s busy workplace, it’s not just what you know—it’s how well you connect that turns good ideas into big outcomes. Strong Connectional Intelligence within a team strengthens workplace morale and productivity by impacting four key attributes of high-performance cultures: Value Visibly – People perform better when they know their contributions matter. Leaders who highlight strengths, acknowledge effort, and celebrate progress create a culture where great work becomes contagious. Communicate Carefully – In an age of nonstop messages, clarity is a competitive advantage. Thoughtful communication reduces confusion, prevents conflict, and ensures that everyone moves forward with shared understanding. Collaborate Confidently – Connectional Intelligence flourishes when people feel empowered to contribute. Confident collaboration means inviting diverse perspectives, leveraging individual superpowers, and creating space for smart problem-solving. Trust Totally – Trust is the anchor of all high-performing teams. When leaders show reliability, transparency, and empathy, people take risks, share ideas, and stay aligned toward common goals. Connectional Intelligence helps teams innovate faster, break down silos, and accomplish what truly matters. Want to learn more? Visit Erica Dhawan’s website to explore her full body of work and deepen your understanding of Connectional Intelligence.