Getting Clear on How

Cathie Leimbach • October 29, 2024

Only 6% of people who set goals or try to change habits succeed. Why? According to David Horsager, the major challenge is not identifying ‘what’ they want to achieve, but rather ‘how’ they’ll get there. Change is tough, and it’s easier when broken down into small, manageable steps.


For example, if you aim to lose 30 pounds by March 31, 2025, your first ‘how’ might be to avoid candy and baked goods, and drink 4 glasses of water daily for two weeks. Then ask, ‘How’ will I avoid candy and baked goods? A good answer: throw out any candy and baked goods in your home. ‘How’ will I drink 4 glasses of water daily? Decide to drink a glass within 5 minutes of waking up, and at set times throughout the day – perhaps 12:00 noon, 3:00 pm, and 6:00 pm.


Once you have determined ‘how’ you will make the desired changes in your life, get ready to start implementing the how immediately or the next day. Waiting reduces the chances you will ever get started. When you have a plan of ‘how’ you are going to proceed and you start following the plan, you start trusting yourself. You start believing that you are capable of changing – that achieving a goal or having better habits is realistic.



The key is to get specific with your "how." Define who is going to do what, when. Then you’ll find yourself far more likely to reach your goals and create lasting change.

Wrapping Up Your Year – Celebrate Your Wins

By Cathie Leimbach • December 16, 2025
As you’re wrapping presents this season, it’s also a great time to wrap up your year with intention. The end of the year offers a natural pause—a chance to reflect, appreciate, and celebrate the people who made a difference along the way. At work, we often move from one deadline to the next without stopping to say thank you. Take a moment to recognize your teammates. Maybe it’s the coworker who always had your back, or the leader who helped you stretch and grow. A sincere “thank you” or a short handwritten note can go a long way. It doesn’t need to be elaborate—just genuine. The same holds true in your personal life. When was the last time you told a friend or family member how much they mean to you? Between holiday plans and to-do lists, it’s easy to forget that our presence often matters more than any present. Every year brings both highs and lows. As this one comes to a close, choose to focus on what went right. Celebrate the small wins and acknowledge the people who supported you through the challenging moments. So, while you’re taping up gift boxes, take a little time to wrap up your year with gratitude. Send the text. Write the card. Let people know they’re valued. After all, the most meaningful gift you can give is helping someone feel truly appreciated. Want more simple, meaningful ways to express appreciation—without overspending?  👉 View Sharing Joy at Work Without Breaking the Bank for practical ideas you can use right away.

Connectional Intelligence: The Power Skill Behind Big Results

By Cathie Leimbach • December 9, 2025
In Erica Dhawan’s book, Get Big Things Done, she defines Connectional Intelligence as the ability to combine knowledge, networks, and relationships to drive meaningful results. In today’s busy workplace, it’s not just what you know—it’s how well you connect that turns good ideas into big outcomes. Strong Connectional Intelligence within a team strengthens workplace morale and productivity by impacting four key attributes of high-performance cultures: Value Visibly – People perform better when they know their contributions matter. Leaders who highlight strengths, acknowledge effort, and celebrate progress create a culture where great work becomes contagious. Communicate Carefully – In an age of nonstop messages, clarity is a competitive advantage. Thoughtful communication reduces confusion, prevents conflict, and ensures that everyone moves forward with shared understanding. Collaborate Confidently – Connectional Intelligence flourishes when people feel empowered to contribute. Confident collaboration means inviting diverse perspectives, leveraging individual superpowers, and creating space for smart problem-solving. Trust Totally – Trust is the anchor of all high-performing teams. When leaders show reliability, transparency, and empathy, people take risks, share ideas, and stay aligned toward common goals. Connectional Intelligence helps teams innovate faster, break down silos, and accomplish what truly matters. Want to learn more? Visit Erica Dhawan’s website to explore her full body of work and deepen your understanding of Connectional Intelligence.