How to Provide Corrective Feedback with Less Stress and Better Results

Cathie Leimbach • June 28, 2021

Do you dread providing corrective feedback? Maybe you avoid it until a formal performance review.  But then, you can’t understand why your employees seem shocked when you finally do give feedback on their performance. If this sounds familiar, you aren’t alone in being uncomfortable and stressed about providing corrective feedback to enable better performance and skill development.

 

While you may feel uncomfortable giving candid feedback, studies show that it is precisely what most people want. Employees want to know what they can do to improve their performance. Waiting for an annual review risks slowing down their professional development to a snail’s pace.

 

Failing to respond to performance or behavior issues can have a significant impact on your team. When performance standards are not uniformly applied, resentment and tension among team members will occur. Often, we tend to focus corrective feedback on low performers that need the most improvement. It is equally important to provide feedback to your top performers to support professional development, increase their engagement, and increase retention. 

 

Here are some general guidelines for successfully providing corrective feedback:

  • It is given in a one-to-one meeting.
  • It is timely, as close to the actual event or performance problem as possible.
  • Examples given are specific, factual, and detailed.
  • Your delivery is calm and supportive.
  • The feedback session is a two-way conversation that empowers the employee.

 

Following is a guide to break down a corrective feedback conversation into specific steps.

 

Step One: Describe the specific action/behavior in neutral terms. Use a calm, supportive tone of voice.

  • “I notice you have missed two deadlines to provide financial data to the Project XYZ team over the past three weeks.”

 

Step Two: Ask their opinion as to why this is happening. Use open-ended questions, listen for what is happening, how it is happening, why it is happening, and any identified obstacles.

  • “What has caused these deadlines to be missed?”
  • “What do you think the issue is?
  • “What specific obstacles are preventing you from meeting the deadlines agreed to?

 

Step Three: Ask what impact they expect this is having on the flow of work, their team, customers, etc.

  •  “What do you think the result of the missed deadlines is on the rest of the team?”
  • “How are these delays impacting the overall project?”

 

Step Four: Ask what changes they are able and willing to make to correct the situation. This is an essential part of the corrective feedback process and empowers the employee to commit to improving performance.

  • “Now that we have identified the issues, what do you think you can do to correct the situation?”
  • “What changes are you willing and able to make right away that will improve the situation?”

 

Step Five: Ask what you can do to support them in their effort to correct the situation. This is an essential part of the process because often employees are unclear about expectations, their areas of responsibility, or have not received enough training and need additional professional development.

  • “What support can I provide you to help you make the changes you have suggested?”
  • “What additional information or training do you need to be successful in making these changes?”
  • “How can I help you make these changes?”

 

Step Six: Ask them to suggest a time, place, and agenda to monitor their corrective process. Follow-up is crucial. Don’t leave the meeting until the next meeting time is on both of your calendars.

  •  “Let’s set a follow-up time to meet and see how things are progressing. What would be a good day and time for you?”

 

Providing corrective feedback provides the foundation for each employee to perform well, grow professionally, stay engaged, serve your customer or client, and ultimately impacts the bottom line. Approaching it as a problem-solving exercise using the steps above will make it less stressful for you and your employee.

The Deadline Only You Knew About

By Cathie Leimbach • October 20, 2026
"When you get a chance." Kelly meant Wednesday. Alex heard next week. The report needed fixing. Alex had said he'd take care of it. So, when she opened the file before Thursday's meeting, she expected to see the changes. They weren't there. "I thought you meant next week," Alex said. "And I wasn't sure which sections you wanted changed." Kelly was frustrated. This wasn't the first time something had slipped. But as she replayed their conversation, she remembered what she'd actually said: "Can you tidy this up when you get a chance?" She had a deadline in mind. She knew exactly what needed changing. She hadn't told Alex either one. The Symptom Missed deadlines. Quiet resentment. The thought, "This isn't the first time." It's hard to hold someone accountable for an expectation that was never stated. Too often, when a leader’s expectation isn’t met, they think, "my team members just don't follow through" or "I shouldn't have to chase people." Yet, the problem is often that the leader didn’t communicate clearly. Requests like "Keep me updated," "Make this a priority", and "Be more proactive" may feel clear in your mind when you say it. But others may leave the conversation with a very different picture in their mind. Then, leaders are frustrated when the result doesn't match their intention. The Tip Healthy accountability starts with a shared understanding of what needs to happen. It continues when you follow up on what was agreed to. Before you finish your next conversation about a task, make sure you've settled four things: What needs doing What the desired result includes Who will do it When it is to be done by After you have clearly stated your expectations, ask the other person to state the specifics of the assignment. Give them an opportunity to raise questions or discuss competing demands. Kelly could have said: "Alex, please update the sales figures and add a short summary of what's changed since last month. I need it by Wednesday, October 28, at 3:00 pm so I can review it before Thursday's meeting. To be sure I explained the task well enough, please state what I asked you to do.” “What challenges might get in the way?" Then agree on what happens if a problem comes up: "If that timing looks too tight, let me know by Tuesday so we can work out the next step." Now there's a commitment you can both refer to. If Wednesday comes and the report isn't ready, Kelly can address it directly: "We agreed it would be ready by 3:00 today, and I haven't received it. What happened?" Clarity won't prevent every missed deadline. But it increases the chances that everyone is on the same page – and that your expectations will be met. When leaders make expectations clear and are open to employee questions and concerns, accountability becomes part of how the team works. Quality results become the norm. Conversation is Where Leadership Happens™ Do you wonder how to make your expectations clearer or how to avoid frustration when holding others accountable? Join Us on November 16  Join our Workplace Conversations Clinic on November 16 to practice setting clear expectations and following up when things slip. You could also have a chance to practice difficult conversations within your team. Reserve your place → HERE

They Can't Read Your Mind. Tell Them You Appreciate Them.

By Cathie Leimbach • October 13, 2026
"I thought you knew I appreciated your work." Kate hadn't planned to say those words in a one-to-one. But when a team member told her, "I'm never quite sure whether you think I'm doing a good job," she was caught off guard. He was someone she relied on. He helped new colleagues settle in, handled difficult customers calmly, and often spotted problems before they got bigger. Of course she valued him. Then she tried to remember the last time she'd told him, and what she'd actually said. There was a quick "Thanks, everyone" at the end of a meeting. A "Great work" in a team email. But she couldn't recall ever telling him what she had noticed about his contribution. Kate had been worried about rising absences and a team that seemed less involved. Praise wouldn't explain or fix every issue. Still, this conversation raised a question she hadn't considered: how many people on her team were feeling their efforts weren’t noticed or appreciated? It's easy to assume people know we appreciate them, especially the ones who quietly get on with the job. We turn our attention to whatever needs fixing, and we don’t acknowledge the people who are doing good work. Meanwhile, people who never receive thanks start to wonder if they are noticed, pull back, stop offering their ideas, and start job hunting elsewhere. Try this week: Look for one contribution each person on your team is making . Tell them what you notice about their work and why it matters. Instead of simply saying, "Good job," try: "Thanks for staying ten minutes past shift change to walk Jamie through the new changeover on Line 3. She now knows exactly what to do instead of guessing." Three elements of meaningful praise are: Be specific. Name what they did and the effect it had. Keep it natural and proportionate. A quiet word can mean a lot. Recognition doesn’t have to be in front of the whole team. Let it stand on its own. Don’t add a "but" or a new request right after the positive feedback. Sincere, specific praise helps people feel seen. It builds rapport because you're showing you notice how they contribute, not just whether the task got done. And people are more likely to speak up and share ideas when they feel heard and connected to the people they work with.  Conversation is Where Leadership Happens™ How often does your appreciation go unspoken? Join our Workplace Conversations Clinic on October 19, 3:00 to 3:30 PM, live on Zoom. You'll practice giving praise that feels natural and helps people feel valued. You'll also have the chance to practice other difficult workplace conversations, from raising concerns to working through disagreements. Reserve your place here!