Reflect on the Past 12 Months

Cathie Leimbach • December 20, 2022

“Achieving success is a challenge but so is struggling, so you may as well choose success.”

Rob Liano

A valuable use of time during the last week of every year is to reflect on the past year of your life. Where have you been successful and what are your disappointments?  What helped you be successful and what contributed to your disappointments?

Then decide what you need to keep doing and what you need to change to have a better life next year. Remember that the actions you took – the way you lived your life and did your work this past year – contributed to your successes and disappointments. If you do similar things next year, you will get similar results. Decide to keep doing the things that led to your successes, stop doing the things that led to disappointments, and start doing things that will improve your results.

Below is an example of a chart you might create and complete to gain clarity on the helpful versus the limiting aspects of your life. Also, consider which actions or habits to Continue, which to Stop, and what to Start doing to continue to be successful and reduce disappointments.  

After taking time for this reflection, you will be more conscious of your successes and disappointments, your strengths and weaknesses, and different actions that could improve your life. You are now in a position to make an informed plan of action for next year.  Instead of disappointments in your life zapping your energy, you will be rewarded for your hard work with greater success and satisfaction.  

Projects or Aspects of Your Life Continue Stop Start
Success Achieved my 3 growth project goals. On Fridays, plan what I will do the following week towards each goal. Spend at least 20 hours each month on each goal.
Success Sunday night family dinners Home-cooked 6:00 pm dinners
Disappointment Weekly date night happened only 6 times Waiting to the last minute to make plans Reserve Thursday evenings for dates.
Diappointment Spent 25% of my work time on jobs I?m not good at. Volunteering for and agreeing to do these tasks. Discuss better fit work assignments with my supervisor.

4 Leadership Behaviors That Drive Trust, Performance, and Accountability

By Cathie Leimbach • March 31, 2026
Most leaders don’t struggle because they lack knowledge. They struggle because leadership opportunities show up in daily conversations —and those moments are easy to miss. The difference between average and high-performing teams often comes down to four leadership behaviors: 1. Build Trust Through Everyday Conversations Trust is built in small moments. Listen to concerns Ask thoughtful questions Follow through Address issues quickly and respectfully 🤝 Trust grows through consistent, everyday conversations. 2. Reinforce What Good Looks Like People repeat what gets recognized. Be specific: “I appreciated how you handled that client issue quickly—that made a difference.” 🔒 Clarity + recognition = stronger performance. 3. Address Problems Early—Kindly and Clearly Avoiding issues creates bigger ones. Keep it simple: What was expected? What happened? What needs to change? 👥 Clear, timely conversations reduce drama and improve results. 4. Support People So They Can Succeed Your role is to help your team succeed. Clarify priorities Remove obstacles Provide resources Coach progress 🔍 When people have clarity and support, performance follows. The Real Lever: Conversations None of this requires new systems. It happens in everyday interactions— 1:1s, quick check-ins, and follow-ups. Better conversations → better results. Quick Reflection Which one would make the biggest difference for you right now? Build trust Reinforce performance Address problems early Support success 👉 Join our next 60-minute Leadership Conversation – Inspiring Employee Performance on Monday, April 6, at 3:00 pm ET. Not a webinar. A working session with other leaders looking at what’s actually happening on their teams—and how small shifts in daily conversations change performance fast. If you're curious what even a 10% shift in consistency could look like for your team… this is a good place to start.

Three Small Shifts That Change Everything

By Cathie Leimbach • March 24, 2026
You don’t need to make big changes in your leadership practices to get better results. Often, it’s small shifts in everyday leadership conversations that quietly change how work gets done. Here are three that work:  1. Make priorities clear Start meetings by stating current priorities. That creates focus right away and helps conversations stay on topic. 2. Ask instead of solve Instead of answering an employee’s questions, ask, “What are your suggestions?” Such questions encourage employee thinking and stronger follow-through. 3. Hold short monthly one-on-one check-ins Meeting with each employee one-on-one allows the regular review of goals, progress, and obstacles. These short conversations surface issues early and keep everyone aligned. These small habits keep teams steady and focused. Your challenge this month: Pick one shift and try it. Notice what changes in clarity, buy-in, or accountability. Sometimes the difference between teams that struggle and teams that move smoothly comes down to a few simple leadership conversations happening consistently. 👉 Join our 60-minute Leadership Conversation on March 30th at 3:00 PM to see how small shifts in everyday leadership conversations can quickly improve clarity, ownership, and results.