Addressing Your Weaknesses

Cathie Leimbach • May 13, 2020
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We tend to be stressed, unhappy, or ineffective when doing tasks that we aren’t good at. Our lack of results reduces our self-confidence and happiness. It is important for us to enhance our ability in some areas of weakness, to delegate some tasks to others, and to simply stop doing other activities.

Achieving Personal Significance in life, feeling like we are making a difference, requires that we are honest with ourselves and address our weaknesses appropriately. If our personal or professional life requires us to be stronger in a particular skill such as people skills, we need to make it a priority to develop in that area. If we are part of a team, it's helpful for all team members to share their strengths and redistribute the work so everyone is primarily using their strengths.

Delegating or reassigning some of your own tasks to someone with better-fit skills increases workplace efficiency. Much of our time is waste doing unimportant tasks such as reading junk email, leaving less time do to valuable work. That time could be applied to higher value activities.

Which of your skills do you need to develop, what can you delegate to more skilled colleagues, and what will you simply stop doing?

Making a Great First Impression: Avoid These 3 Common Mistakes

By Cathie Leimbach • July 15, 2025
According to research by Vanessa Van Edwards, who analyzed thousands of first encounters, your first impression happens before you even speak. People decide if they like, trust, or want to work with you the moment they first see you. Unfortunately, many of us unknowingly sabotage ourselves with what she calls the "triple threat" of first impression mistakes. The 3 Problems That Kill Your First Impression Problem 1: Making Yourself Small - When you tuck your arms close to your body and hunch your shoulders, you signal low confidence. Looking down at your phone while waiting creates the "universal defeat posture" – chin tucked, shoulders hunched, taking up minimal space. In simple terms, you look like a loser. Problem 2: Hiding Your Hands - Keeping your hands in pockets or out of sight creates subconscious distrust. People need to see your hands to feel safe around you. Problem 3: Avoiding Eye Contact - Direct eye contact triggers oxytocin, which builds trust and connection. Skip this in the first few seconds, and you miss a crucial bonding opportunity. How to Fix These Mistakes The solution is straightforward: keep your hands visible and expressive, stand tall with good posture to take up appropriate space, and make deliberate eye contact within the first few seconds of meeting someone. Master these three elements, and you'll create positive first impressions that open doors instead of closing them. For more detailed research findings and background on Van Edwards' extensive studies, check out Why Vanessa Van Edwards' First Impression Studies Matter .

Why Great Leaders Are Worth Every Penny

By Cathie Leimbach • July 8, 2025
Based on research by Boris Groysberg, Harvard Business School