Competency Strengthens Trust
Cathie Leimbach • July 26, 2022
“People have confidence in those who stay fresh, relevant, and capable,” says David Horsager. When one is seen as competent, others are much more willing to delegate work without micromanaging.
Tony Robbins, who is known for encouraging people to develop their potential – to become their best, emphasizes that being competent isn’t all that matters. Others must view us as competent before they will trust us. It is up to us to demonstrate our competence. He shares several ways that we can demonstrate competence.
- Don’t be modest. Don’t be arrogant either. However, it is important to speak up about your strengths, volunteer for opportunities to demonstrate your knowledge and skills.
- Have an opinion. When a colleague asks for you ideas, share them. Never say that you don’t have anything valuable to say, that they should consult others instead of you, or that you don’t care about the matter at hand.
- Ask for advice. When you show that you aren’t a know-it-all, you are open to gathering information from others, and you have a collaborative mindset, others will appreciate you more. This increases their willingness to collaborate with you, giving you opportunities to demonstrate your competence.
- Be honest. Tell the truth, even if you think others may not like it. If others ask you to work in area in which you don’t have competence, let them know it is one of your weak areas.
- Demonstrate confidence. When you are competent, show your competence and confidence by speaking clearly, using a positive, assured voice, and displaying strong body language.
When you are competent, take advantage of opportunities to demonstrate it. This will strengthen the trust between you and your colleagues.
In most organizations, the instinct is to add —more goals, more projects, more meetings. But as Juliet Funt, founder of the Juliet Funt Group, teaches in her Strategic Choice process, real leadership strength lies in deciding what to stop doing . Strategic Choice is the intentional narrowing of priorities—cutting away the clutter so teams can focus on what truly drives results. It’s a disciplined act of letting go: saying no to good ideas so there’s room for the great ones. Funt’s approach challenges leaders to pause, think, and create the mental and operational space their people need to perform at their best. By removing unnecessary tasks and misplaced effort, leaders make room for precision, innovation, and real thinking time. This isn’t about doing less—it’s about doing what matters most. When businesses adopt this mindset, they replace overwhelm with clarity and regain control of their time, energy, and outcomes. For small to mid-sized companies, embracing Strategic Choice can transform busyness into focus—and that focus is where sustainable growth begins. Want a quick visual overview? View Strategic Choice: Making Room for What Matters to see how this process helps leaders focus on what truly drives results.
Hey team leaders! Ever wonder why some companies soar while others stumble? Patrick Lencioni's bestseller, The Five Dysfunctions of a Team , nails it: workplace dysfunctions such as no trust, fear of conflict, lack of commitment, avoiding accountability, and ignoring results lead to mediocre performance at best. But here's the good news—smart leadership development changes the game! Start with building trust . Train leaders to open up and be vulnerable. Teams bond, ideas flow, and costly mistakes drop. Next, embrace healthy conflict . Teach team leaders to make it safe for team members to share the pros and cons of current or new ways of doing things. This helps everyone understand different perspectives. Then, drive commitment . Leaders who clarify goals, ask everyone to share their level of buy-in, and address their concerns get everyone bought in. People focus on high value work and get more done. . Hold folks accountable through coaching. Leaders learn to give kind, direct feedback by praising good work and calmly providing more training as needed. Turnover plummets and the quality and quantity of work improves. Finally, focus on results . Be clear on expectations. Keep score by monitoring progress weekly or daily. Acknowledge team wins when the goals are met. Winning sports teams pay attention to these Five Behaviors of a Team. How would a World Series winner have been determined this week without trust among the players and coaches, openness to tough coaching, the whole team working together, players focusing on their specific positions, and getting players around the bases to get the top score? Every workplace can benefit from these team behaviors as well. Lencioni's research proves it: Companies who prepare their leaders to overcome these 5 common workplace dysfunctions, improve the culture and see huge financial gains. Invest in your leaders today. Your bottom line will thank you! Click here to learn more about the painful cost of team dysfunction.