Leading Disillusioned Learners

Cathie Leimbach • April 3, 2023

Let’s further explore Blanchard’s Situational Leadership II™ model. This article discusses the most effective leadership practices for Disillusioned Leaners, employees who are in the second quadrant of developing competence and commitment for a new job or task. At this point in their learning process, individuals can perform the basics of the task but are disappointed they haven’t mastered it.  They’ve been receiving praise for what they are doing well. But they are also getting corrective feedback daily.  They may wonder if they’re ever going to become competent.

Although improving, their skill level is still relatively low. They are achieving neither the quality nor quantity goals. Because of frequent corrective feedback, their commitment and confidence have fallen to a low level. Appropriate supervision in this quadrant includes daily positive and specific feedback along with patient coaching for continued skill development. 

As the leader continues to provide strong skill development support, they will be asking the employee to restate the expected results for this task and compare their results with expectations. They will praise successful performance and the progress the learner is making. A leader-coach asks the employee what they think is limiting their skill development and how they think the gap could be closed. The leader asks what help the staff person thinks they need and then provides the requested support. In the second quadrant, it is important for the leader to be actively engaged in the employee’s ongoing training, so their skills continue to improve, adding more value for the organization. When the supervisor praises good work, it encourages the employee to continue learning. And, when the leader listens and responds to the employee’s needs, the learner’s commitment is maintained. Leaders who fail to provide ongoing training and encouragement during this second stage of skill development are likely to have high staff turnover. Most people want to be successful at work, so if they don’t feel they are making adequate progress, they will move on to another opportunity. Let’s avoid ineffective leadership, the top cause of today’s resignations and quiet quitting. 

It is essential that leaders make it a priority to support employees for success by taking the time to develop their skills and commitment. This investment helps employees become high performers who feel valued, reducing turnover, improving morale, and strengthening the organization’s bottom line. 

By Cathie Leimbach • September 29, 2026
Jason left his one-on-one feeling encouraged. His supervisor, Ellen, had listened as he described competing deadlines and his interest in becoming a team leader. They talked about the possibility of shifting some of his workload. Ellen also suggested that training might help him prepare for a leadership role. "Let's work on that," she said. Jason thought help was coming. Ellen thought Jason would bring her a plan. Two weeks later, the deadlines were closer. Nothing had been reassigned. Neither had looked into training. During their next one-on-one, Ellen asked how things were going. "I'm still waiting to hear which project you want me to focus on," Jason said. "I thought we agreed that you would work that out." "And the leadership training?" "Did you find a course?" Jason paused. "I thought you were going to recommend one." They had discussed the same topics. They had left with different expectations. Neither intended to let the other down. But they hadn't agreed on who would do what, or when. Turn a Good Conversation into Clear Next Steps Listening matters. So does what happens after you listen. Before you end your next one-on-one, take a few minutes to make sure you and your employee understand what comes next. Talk about priorities. If everything can't be done at once, agree on what comes first. Ask what might get in the way, and what support would help. Make room for professional growth, too. What does the employee want to learn? What responsibility would they like to prepare for? Identify a step you can each take to move that development forward. Then write down your agreements. Keep the notes simple: what needs to happen, who will do it, and by when. Include your own commitments. Putting It Into Practice Ellen and Jason tried again. "The client proposal comes first," Ellen said. "I'll talk with Marcus today about taking over the weekly report. By Friday, I'll let you know whether he can." "I'll find two leadership courses before our next meeting," Jason said. "Then we can talk about which one fits." Both Jason and Ellen knew what to do next. The following week, both reported their findings and they made decisions on how to move forward. Jason’s work became more aligned with Ellen’s departmental goals. Jason felt valued and appreciated. Their weekly one-to-ones became the backbone of their workplace success. Want to Make Your Workplace Conversations More Productive? Join us for the Workplace Conversations Clinic on October 19 . Bring a conversation you want to handle more effectively, and let's work on making the next steps clear. Register Here
By Cathie Leimbach • September 29, 2026
Sally appreciated that her supervisor made time for weekly one-on-ones. It made her feel valued. But after 18 months with Emerald Corp, something was missing. She rarely received feedback. Her supervisor didn’t tell her what she was doing especially well—or where she needed to improve. And although the company had promised continuing education when she was hired, no development opportunities had materialized. Sally loved learning. Several next-level positions interested her, but she knew she needed additional knowledge and skills. Meanwhile, two college classmates working in other departments had already been promoted. She was a fast learner. She was getting bored. And she was beginning to wonder whether she had a future at Emerald. So Sally started applying elsewhere. During Monday’s one-on-one, she asked her supervisor whether he would serve as a reference. He was stunned. “You’re doing well,” he said. “There are lots of opportunities for you here.” Sally asked whether he would support her applying for an internal position. “Well, you’re doing fairly well,” he replied, “but there are several things you could be doing better. You’d also need more experience or training before you’d be ready for the next level.” Sally was confused. “What should I be doing better?” Her supervisor mentioned a few areas for improvement. “Why haven’t you told me this before?” Sally asked. “No news is good news,” he replied. “You’re certainly not at risk of losing your job.” “But you’re telling me I’m not ready for a promotion. How am I supposed to improve if I don’t know what you expect?” Her supervisor assumed Sally would figure it out over time. Sally had assumed she was already meeting expectations. Both assumptions were costly. Within days, Sally had two interviews with other companies. One-on-Ones Should Help Employees Succeed Employees shouldn’t have to guess what high performance looks like. One-on-ones are an opportunity to make expectations clear and help employees become more successful. Talk about what they are doing well. Be specific about where improvement is needed. Ask about their challenges, interests, and future goals. Then provide the coaching, training, and support that can help them succeed. Don’t wait until an employee asks for a reference to talk about their future. Ask before you assume. Conversation is where leadership happens™ Want to Make Your Workplace Conversations More Productive? Join us for the Workplace Conversations Clinic on October 19 . Bring a conversation you want to handle more effectively, and let's work on making the next steps clear. Register HERE