Don’t Get Complacent with Virtual Workers

Cathie Leimbach • April 2, 2024

They are more apt to jump ship!

Gallup reports that although engagement of virtual workers is increasing, their connection and loyalty to their employer is sliding. These individuals enjoy the benefits of working from home. And, they are being productive for a sense of personal satisfaction and financial stability. 


However, there is a tendency for them to make independent decisions which serve their personal preferences. They can be more productive if they aren’t bothered by interactions with their manager, colleagues, or customers. Hybrid workers want to choose which days they go into the office based on how it impacts their personal schedule, not when their team members are going to be available for lunch or when the client is in town for a project progress meeting. Only 12% of remote-ready workers have conversations with their team members when deciding which days to go to the office.


Yet, making independent work decisions that fit one’s own needs leads to being less considerate of others, reducing one’s collaboration with colleagues and customer service. Individuals are enjoying the freedom of not being in the office, but they are drifting away from being aligned with their colleagues and the company’s vision. Their distance from others during the workday often results in them drifting from the organization’s purpose and values. They are more likely to consider opportunities with other companies so their current employer risks losing capable productive employees. who had been top performers.


Here are 3 reasons remote workers may feel less connected and ways leaders can reduce their drift.


Lack of Face-to-Face Interaction: Human beings build rapport, deeper connections, and a sense of belonging from face-to-face interactions. Sharing drinks and food further enhances interpersonal connections. Leaders can periodically schedule compulsory in-person days with a group lunch to keep people connected with each other and the organization’s vision, mission, and values.


Communication Barriers: Email, instant messaging, and videoconferencing are great tools for sharing information, but non-verbal cues to the meaning behind the message are lacking in the first two and limited in the third. Misunderstandings in communication can lead to feeling isolated and disconnected. Leaders can reduce misunderstandings by asking employees to summarize their understanding of expectations and next steps.


Reduced Visibility and Recognition: The out-of-sight, out-of-mind maxim is true. We more often think about people whom we see regularly. Therefore, managers and supervisors are less likely to communicate with remote workers or thank them for their work. Remote workers aren’t nearby offering their assistance with little tasks and getting acknowledged for being team players. And, since their manager and team members are out-of-sight, remote workers don’t have strong bonds and loyalty to them or the company. Leaders can be sure to check-in with remote workers multiple times every week, to monitor their progress on projects, give them a quick phone call or thank you email, or have their favorite coffee delivered to their home.



What is one thing you will do this week to build a stronger personal and company connection with your remote workers?

By Cathie Leimbach • September 29, 2026
Jason left his one-on-one feeling encouraged. His supervisor, Ellen, had listened as he described competing deadlines and his interest in becoming a team leader. They talked about the possibility of shifting some of his workload. Ellen also suggested that training might help him prepare for a leadership role. "Let's work on that," she said. Jason thought help was coming. Ellen thought Jason would bring her a plan. Two weeks later, the deadlines were closer. Nothing had been reassigned. Neither had looked into training. During their next one-on-one, Ellen asked how things were going. "I'm still waiting to hear which project you want me to focus on," Jason said. "I thought we agreed that you would work that out." "And the leadership training?" "Did you find a course?" Jason paused. "I thought you were going to recommend one." They had discussed the same topics. They had left with different expectations. Neither intended to let the other down. But they hadn't agreed on who would do what, or when. Turn a Good Conversation into Clear Next Steps Listening matters. So does what happens after you listen. Before you end your next one-on-one, take a few minutes to make sure you and your employee understand what comes next. Talk about priorities. If everything can't be done at once, agree on what comes first. Ask what might get in the way, and what support would help. Make room for professional growth, too. What does the employee want to learn? What responsibility would they like to prepare for? Identify a step you can each take to move that development forward. Then write down your agreements. Keep the notes simple: what needs to happen, who will do it, and by when. Include your own commitments. Putting It Into Practice Ellen and Jason tried again. "The client proposal comes first," Ellen said. "I'll talk with Marcus today about taking over the weekly report. By Friday, I'll let you know whether he can." "I'll find two leadership courses before our next meeting," Jason said. "Then we can talk about which one fits." Both Jason and Ellen knew what to do next. The following week, both reported their findings and they made decisions on how to move forward. Jason’s work became more aligned with Ellen’s departmental goals. Jason felt valued and appreciated. Their weekly one-to-ones became the backbone of their workplace success. Want to Make Your Workplace Conversations More Productive? Join us for the Workplace Conversations Clinic on October 19 . Bring a conversation you want to handle more effectively, and let's work on making the next steps clear. Register Here
By Cathie Leimbach • September 29, 2026
Sally appreciated that her supervisor made time for weekly one-on-ones. It made her feel valued. But after 18 months with Emerald Corp, something was missing. She rarely received feedback. Her supervisor didn’t tell her what she was doing especially well—or where she needed to improve. And although the company had promised continuing education when she was hired, no development opportunities had materialized. Sally loved learning. Several next-level positions interested her, but she knew she needed additional knowledge and skills. Meanwhile, two college classmates working in other departments had already been promoted. She was a fast learner. She was getting bored. And she was beginning to wonder whether she had a future at Emerald. So Sally started applying elsewhere. During Monday’s one-on-one, she asked her supervisor whether he would serve as a reference. He was stunned. “You’re doing well,” he said. “There are lots of opportunities for you here.” Sally asked whether he would support her applying for an internal position. “Well, you’re doing fairly well,” he replied, “but there are several things you could be doing better. You’d also need more experience or training before you’d be ready for the next level.” Sally was confused. “What should I be doing better?” Her supervisor mentioned a few areas for improvement. “Why haven’t you told me this before?” Sally asked. “No news is good news,” he replied. “You’re certainly not at risk of losing your job.” “But you’re telling me I’m not ready for a promotion. How am I supposed to improve if I don’t know what you expect?” Her supervisor assumed Sally would figure it out over time. Sally had assumed she was already meeting expectations. Both assumptions were costly. Within days, Sally had two interviews with other companies. One-on-Ones Should Help Employees Succeed Employees shouldn’t have to guess what high performance looks like. One-on-ones are an opportunity to make expectations clear and help employees become more successful. Talk about what they are doing well. Be specific about where improvement is needed. Ask about their challenges, interests, and future goals. Then provide the coaching, training, and support that can help them succeed. Don’t wait until an employee asks for a reference to talk about their future. Ask before you assume. Conversation is where leadership happens™ Want to Make Your Workplace Conversations More Productive? Join us for the Workplace Conversations Clinic on October 19 . Bring a conversation you want to handle more effectively, and let's work on making the next steps clear. Register HERE