Overcoming Workplace Drama

Cathie Leimbach • April 23, 2024

Workplace drama can be like a dark cloud looming over an otherwise sunny organization. Cy Wakeman, a renowned expert, describes workplace drama as emotional waste—a drain on energy that could be better spent on positive endeavors. It’s that negativity that pulls focus away from productivity and towards unproductive mental processes. Instead of fostering a harmonious work environment, drama can disrupt workflows and hinder progress.


To tackle workplace drama, it’s vital to question our initial thoughts and stick to the facts. Drama often arises from misunderstandings or assumptions, so taking a moment to reassess can prevent unnecessary conflict. Instead of jumping to conclusions or engaging in gossip, seek out factual information and consider different viewpoints. Clear communication with all involved parties can help gather accurate perspectives.


Distinguishing between facts and opinions is key. While opinions may differ, facts provide solid ground for decision-making and conflict resolution. By focusing on facts rather than emotions, we can prevent drama from escalating.


Creating a positive work environment also involves addressing issues promptly and directly. Ignoring problems allows them to worsen, leading to more drama in the long run. Encouraging transparency and accountability among team members fosters mutual respect and understanding, reducing the likelihood of drama.



Ultimately, combating workplace drama requires a collective effort. By questioning assumptions, sticking to facts, and fostering open communication, teams can create a more harmonious and productive workplace were drama takes a backseat to collaboration and success.

Feedback Isn't a Download. It's a Dialogue.

By Cathie Leimbach • July 14, 2026
Most leaders know they should give feedback. Yet many avoid it. Not because they don't care, but because they worry they'll discourage someone, create conflict, or say the wrong thing. Unfortunately, when feedback is delayed, vague, or avoided, employees don't feel supported—they feel uncertain. Research highlighted in a recent McKinsey Quarterly article found that employees who receive regular, specific feedback are significantly more engaged than those who don't. The problem isn't that employees dislike feedback. They dislike feedback that feels judgmental, unclear, or disconnected from their growth. The strongest leaders understand something important: Feedback isn't a download. It's a dialogue. When leaders approach feedback as an employee development conversation rather than a list of mistakes, people become more open to hearing hard truths and more motivated to improve. Effective feedback communicates two powerful messages at the same time: I respect you. I believe you can grow. That combination changes everything. The best leaders don't simply evaluate past performance; they help employees see future potential. Rather than focusing only on what went wrong, they provide feedforward —guidance on what someone can do to become even more successful. High-performing organizations understand a simple truth: Improvement requires input. The question for leaders isn't whether to give feedback. It's whether our feedback leaves people feeling smaller—or stronger. Feedback doesn't change people. Better conversations do. Download our one-page guide: 5 Practices That Turn Feedback Into Growth Learn five practical ways to make every feedback conversation more productive, more encouraging, and more likely to inspire lasting growth. Conversation is where leadership happens

Performance Conversations: Clarity Is Kindness

By Cathie Leimbach • July 7, 2026
Most leaders want better performance. They want employees who take ownership, meet expectations, solve problems, and continue growing. Yet many leaders seldom initiate performance conversations – and when they do, it doesn’t go well. Leaders often hesitate because they fear discouraging people. Employees, meanwhile, don't know if they are missing the target. This can be costly. Research highlighted in McKinsey's Courageous Conversations article found that organizations with strong performance practices are four times more likely to outperform their peers. Yet fewer than one-third of employees believe performance reviews actually help them improve. The problem is not just a lack of performance conversations. It's a lack of clarity. The article points to a simple but powerful distinction: separate the hardware of performance from the software of performance. The hardware includes facts, goals, KPIs, commitments, timelines, and standards. The software includes tone, timing, relationships, empathy, and intent. When leaders clearly explain the facts while delivering them with care and respect, employees become more receptive to improvement. Strong leaders don't judge people—they diagnose work.  They focus on behaviors, actions, and results rather than character. They clarify expectations, provide coaching, and create frequent opportunities for alignment. In high-performing cultures, clarity isn't viewed as criticism. It is viewed as support. As the article notes, "Clarity is a kindness, and ambiguity is a burden." Employees deserve to know where they stand, what success looks like, and how to improve. When leaders provide that clarity with dignity and respect, performance conversations become growth conversations. And growth is where better results begin. Download the Performance Conversations: Hardware & Software Checklist for Leaders and learn how to have everyday performance discussions that include opportunities for growth, accountability, and stronger results.