Setting Clear Expectations Reduces Employee Quitting

Cathie Leimbach • July 5, 2023

Remember when you had a coach, teacher, mentor, parent, friend who believed in you 100%? Their high expectations and total belief for what you could do enabled you to perform better than you imagined, consistently and confidently.  You felt good about being successful and you wanted to experience more of these good feelings.  You knew you were in a right-fit place and never considered quitting the team.  You took more courses with that teacher because you understood their expectations.  You spent more time with that friend because you both had similar expectations of the friendship. Likewise, when managers are clear about workplace expectations and provide reinforcing feedback, employees are likely to succeed and much less likely to quit.     

 

However, a recent Harvard Business study found that 69% of managers reported being uncomfortable communicating with their employees.  When managers don't tell employees specifically what they want them to do in a way that the employees understand what is expected, there is little chance of them producing the desired results.  This often leads to managers complaining about employee performance or ignoring underperformers.  Employee frustration with their failure and inadequate communication with their boss causes them to resign, work with mediocre effort, or become a quiet quitter (to collect a paycheck but not even try to accomplish anything).

 

Effective managers make it a priority to clearly communicate expectations.  They share exactly what results they are expecting from each employee, specify which procedures are to be followed, and regulary provide feedback so employees know when they are or aren't fulfilling expectations. Imagine how your employees will feel when they know what is expected.  Good performers will be confident about keeping their job and poor performers will know where they need to improve.  Nobody will be wondering if they are on the right track so they won't be wasting time and energy worrying about their job security.  They will be likely to become strong performers who aren't thinking of quitting your organization. 


Here are some best practices for communicating expectations an regulary reinforcing them so your employees are clear about workplace expectations:

  • Connect the company "why" to your employee's "Why".  Your employees need to know why what they do matters. More importantly, they need to find a sense of purpose in your organization's mission. Treat your employees like they make a difference, and they will.
  • Be clear. Set clear expectations and goals. Meet with each of your direct reports one-on-one periodically to make sure they understand what "good performance" is. And put it in writing so that it is easy to keep track of what has or hasn't been communicated.
  • Co-Create Goals. Don't dictate. Co-creating goals and expectations will create higher buy-in and more significant accountability. Having a conversation with each of your employees will empower and support them to meet and exceed expectations.  
  • Provide C.A.R.E feedback. Continuous. Accessible. Regular. Empathetic. Schedule regular meetings continually. Be responsive, approachable, and empathetic. You have a unique opportunity to unleash the most significant contributions of others.
  • Hold them accountable.  Praise their successes, kindly point out where improvement is needed, and willingly give them the support necessary to become more effective.
  • Be approachable.  Encourage your employees to reach out to you with their questions.  Be available when they need clarification.  Welcome the disruption to your schedule when the purpose is to equip an employee to do their job more effectively. 
  • Get out of their way. Develop agreed-to expectations with each employee. Give them the support they need. And then let them do their thing. Trust that they can solve the problem, find the solution, take care of the customer, innovate and inspire other team members. 

 

As managers, it is essential that you communicate and reinforce expectations effectively and frequently.  You will be making huge deposits into your employees' confidence and performance, greatly decreasing the likelihood that they will quit your company. 


What can you do this month to communicate your expectations more clearly?  Register for - and attend - our free 45-minute webinar “3 Tips to Reduce Employee Quitting”.   

Trust-Building Conversations

By Cathie Leimbach • June 30, 2026
Most workplace tension doesn't come from major conflicts. It comes from too few conversations. A disappointment that was never discussed. A broken agreement that was never repaired. Appreciation that was never expressed. Over time, these "withholds" create friction that slows collaboration, weakens trust, and makes even simple conversations feel difficult. The strongest teams don't avoid tension—they address it early. Research highlighted in a recent McKinsey article found that unresolved tensions can significantly reduce team effectiveness, while high-trust teams consistently outperform their peers. The difference isn't the absence of problems. It's the willingness to talk about them. One of the most practical leadership habits is creating regular opportunities for transparent interaction. That includes appreciation. People should hear what they're doing well far more often than they hear about their shortfalls. Specific, genuine recognition builds trust over time. Those trust deposits matter because once positive relationships are built, difficult conversation are more likely to accept the message . When correction is needed, reinforce that you value the person, even though they aren’t perfect. The goal is growth, not judgment. But leaders should be careful not to make appreciation transactional. If positive feedback has been absent for months, suddenly offering praise immediately before a critique usually feels insincere. Trust is built through a steady pattern of recognition, encouragement, and honest conversation—not a last-minute compliment. Transparent leaders also address issues early. Small frustrations become large resentments when left unresolved. Teams that clear the air quickly spend less energy managing tension and more energy producing results. The result? Less friction. More trust. Stronger relationships. Better performance. Because healthy conversations don't just solve problems—they strengthen the team. Free Leader Guide: 5 Practices for Trust-Building Conversations The best leaders don't wait for tension to become conflict. They build trust before it's needed. Download our 5 Practices for Trust-Building Conversations guide to learn practical ways to strengthen relationships, reduce friction, and create a culture where honest conversations lead to better performance. Download the guide and start building trust one conversation at a time.

Speaking Up Is Not Defiance. It's Duty.

By Cathie Leimbach • June 23, 2026
Most leaders say they want employees to speak up. They want people who spot risks, question assumptions, and help the organization make better decisions. Yet many employees hesitate to do exactly that. Why? Because leaders often respond to speaking up as if the speaker is complaining, criticizing or resisting. When people fear being viewed as difficult, they stop sharing what they see. The organization loses valuable information, ideas, and perspectives. A recent McKinsey article found that teams with high psychological safety are two to three times more likely to generate breakthrough ideas. When people feel safe speaking up, better thinking follows. The best leaders understand a simple truth: Speaking up is not defiance. It's duty. When employees question assumptions, raise concerns, or offer a different perspective, they are helping the team avoid blind spots and make stronger decisions. That's why effective leaders don't merely tolerate speaking up—they invite it. They ask: What are we not seeing? What assumptions are we making? Who might see this differently? What information are we missing? Just as importantly, they respond with curiosity instead of defensiveness. They thank people for expressing their perspective. They explain how input influenced decisions. They make speaking up safe. Because organizations don't improve when everyone agrees. They improve when people feel responsible for helping the team see what others may have missed. In healthy organizations, speaking up isn't rebellion. It's responsibility. It's duty. Leadership Reflection Think about your last leadership team meeting. Did people simply agree? Or did someone help the team see something it otherwise would have missed? Download 5 Questions That Surface Better Thinking and make speaking up a productive part of how your team thinks, decides, and performs.