Showing Appreciation to Your Employees

Cathie Leimbach • October 25, 2022

Many people who believe appreciation is important confess that they don’t know how to show appreciation in a way that is meaningful to their employees. Let’s look at some key factors for being authentically helping your team members feel valued.

Training for managers is a critical first step. Only when leaders buy-into the why of appreciation and have the necessary skills will they be confident and competent in this area.

There are 5 main types or languages of appreciation that help people to feel valued. Dr. Gary Chapman and Dr. Paul White have written a book and provide great resources on “The 5 Languages of Appreciation in the Workplace”. These are:

Words of Affirmation – Thank someone in-person one-on-one or in a group. Give them a thank you note on a card or Post-it. Send them a text or an email. Be sure to think quieter people one-on-one or in a very small group. More outgoing and confident people often enjoy being acknowledged publicly at a special event.

Quality Time – When an employee stops at your office with a question, turn away from your computer and put your pen down. Make eye contact so they know you are focusing on them. Spend coffee break or lunch with an employee or two.

Acts of Service – When a colleague has a big deadline and you have a light day, ask how you could help them for an hour. When an employee is taking cases of supplies to a community awareness event, take a few minutes to help them load their vehicle or hold the door when their arms are full.

Gifts – Only 7% of the workforce highly values gifts at work. Many of them feel valued with small gifts such as a gift card for their favorite coffee shop or a pad of nifty shaped Post-its.

Physical Touch – Yes, physical touch helps people feel valued, but, it isn’t a preferred language of appreciation at work. However, workplace belonging a rapport are enhanced by handshakes, fist bumps, and high fives.

Senior leaders modeling effective appreciation behaviors is also important. When managers and supervisors are the recipients of authentic appreciation, they are much more likely to support their employees in similar ways. When managers and supervisors who appreciation, the employees are more likely to have stronger job satisfaction and productivity and are less likely to resign.

Human beings are emotional beings. When we feel valued, we are happier and add more value. What is one thing you will do this week towards appreciating your colleagues more? 

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